York Carol Service

A gentle, welcoming family carol service to remember babies and children, and to support bereaved families during the festive season.

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Join us in York Minster on Sunday 6 December at 1:30pm.

The event offers a safe and reflective space for families, friends, and supporters.

There will be carols, readings, and an opportunity to hang stars on our special remembrance Christmas tree in memory of a little one.

The service is free and open to anyone, there’s no need to book.

For more information, please email [email protected]

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Bereavement support looks different for everyone. We'll meet you where you're at.

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Experiences of grief

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Experiences of grief

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Bereavement support helpline

If you would like the opportunity to talk freely, for as long as required, with a sympathetic and understanding listener, please contact us via our bereavement helpline or send an email.

Get in touch

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WhatsApp bereavement support

Our WhatsApp support offers a calm, confidential space for anyone over 18 to connect directly with a Bereavement Support Advisor.

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A friend's toolkit

Supporting a loved one whose baby has died can bring a rollercoaster of emotions and questions. Our friend’s toolkit will help you help your loved one - one 'tool' at a time.

A friend’s toolkit

You can support families through their darkest days

Your donation could pay for a support package to be sent to a bereaved family, giving advice, sharing experiences from other bereaved parents and signposting to where they can get further support.

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