Bereavement support helpline
If you would like the opportunity to talk freely, for as long as required, with a sympathetic and understanding listener, please contact us via our bereavement helpline or send an email.
At The Lullaby Trust we offer a listening bereavement support service, which can be useful as a first point of contact after you lose a child or if you just need to talk to a sympathetic and understanding listener. Our support is free, is flexible and can be used at any time. It can also be used alongside a professional counsellor, and there is no waiting list.
If you are finding things especially difficult or require more in-depth support, though, you may want to access bereavement counselling or therapeutic support.
Losing a child is an extremely difficult event in anyone’s life. Grief following the unexpected death of your child is an intense and enduring experience and a very personal thing. The loss can bring up a wide range of emotions including guilt and anger.
Not everyone will need or want professional help. You may find that the support of family and friends or talking to other parents who have been through a similar loss is enough for you, so it is important that you get the support that is right for you.
Some people benefit from speaking openly to a counsellor about their feelings to help ease the process and resolve any remaining issues they may have.
Counselling falls under the umbrella term ‘talking therapies’ and can offer you the opportunity to have a safe, confidential space to talk and explore your feelings with a neutral person outside your circle of family and friends. Some counsellors and therapists are also trained in specialist therapies to help cope with traumatic loss and PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).
If you feel some of the above are persisting or are troubling you, then a counsellor therapist may be able to help.
Counselling is available via the NHS, privately and through some charitable organisations. You may want to ask if the counsellor you see has experience in dealing with traumatic loss and bereavement.
Please note that some therapeutic services can have long waiting lists. They may be offered for a specific amount for sessions e.g. 6 x weekly sessions.
Everyone’s grief and needs are different; you may need to make other enquiries or ask your GP what they would recommend before you make a decision.
Below are some suggestions for who you might choose to contact when searching for the right support for you.
GPs will be able to refer you to your local NHS Talking Therapies service but these do not always accept bereavement referrals and waiting times may vary.
To find your nearest Talking Therapies service, visit the NHS Choices website here or speak to your GP.
Many workplaces now have access to counselling through EAPS, which is usually a time-limited but often rapid response.
A comprehensive and up to date search tool for local and national bereavement support.
Professional bodies have registers of counsellors and therapists practicing privately. Many professionals will offer a ‘sliding scale’ or reduce their fee in cases of hardship.
Information given on this page is for reference only. The Lullaby Trust is not responsible for the content of external sites or the experience you may have with external organisations.
If you would like the opportunity to talk freely, for as long as required, with a sympathetic and understanding listener, please contact us via our bereavement helpline or send an email.
A closed group where you can meet bereaved families who have experienced the death of a baby or young child, to talk and support each other.